The Dad Joke That Stole the Show — and the Lesson Every Parent and Coach Should Learn

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The Dad Joke That Stole the Show — and the Lesson Every Parent and Coach Should Learn
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It was the first inning in the Great Lakes Regional of the Little League World Series. The game was already tense. The bases were loaded and the pitcher was struggling. This was the kind of moment where a coach usually walks out with a plan — an adjustment, a strategy, a quick pep talk.

But Coach Jake Riordan had something else in mind.

He stepped onto the mound, leaned in, and asked:

“Do you know that a koala bear is not actually a bear? It’s a marsupial. Do you know why? Because it doesn’t have the koala fications.”

And then, without another word, he turned and walked back to the dugout.

The video exploded across social media. Headlines called it “endearing,” “pure,” and “exactly what youth sports needs.”

Parents and coaches from all over chimed in — some laughing at the joke, others pointing out the deeper truth: in one of the biggest games of these kids’ lives, their coach used his moment to make them smile.

The Bigger Lesson

We often think that pressure moments require intensity — a rallying speech, a stern correction, a push to focus harder. But pressure already narrows a child’s world. Their body floods with adrenaline and cortisol. Breathing quickens. Muscles tighten. The brain shifts into fight-or-flight mode, which makes it harder to process instructions, remember mechanics or think clearly.

That’s why Coach Riordan’s joke wasn’t just funny — it was brilliant. Humor works like a circuit breaker. It pulls the brain out of survival mode and back into connection mode. Heart rate slows. Shoulders drop. The prefrontal cortex — the part of the brain responsible for problem-solving and decision-making — comes back online.

For young athletes, whose brains are still developing, that reset is even more powerful. In just a few seconds, he gave his players the best gift a coach can offer in a high-pressure moment: the chance to breathe.

What Parents Can Learn

  • Keep the fun alive. High-stakes moments are part of sports, but they shouldn’t drown out the joy. Protect the joy over all else.
  • Be supportive, not suffocating. Show up, cheer, and let them know you believe in them — but resist the urge to coach from the stands or dissect every play on the drive home.
  • Protect their love for the game. If they leave the field feeling valued, supported, and connected — regardless of the scoreboard — they’re far more likely to want to keep playing.

What Coaches Can Learn

  • Connection beats correction in pressure moments. A well-timed joke, smile or memory cue can do more for performance than overloading an athlete with instructions.
  • Use your presence as a reset button. When you walk toward a player in a tough moment, you have the power to lower the emotional temperature before you say a single word.
  • Model perspective. Even in championship games, kids need to see that sports are still fun.

Why This Matters

We talk a lot about mental toughness, but sometimes toughness looks softer than we expect. It’s the ability to keep perspective, to step into a moment and choose connection over control.

Coach Riordan didn’t just make his players laugh — he taught every parent and coach watching that our job isn’t to match the pressure of the moment. It’s to balance it. And sometimes, the fastest way to do that… is with a marsupial who lacks the koala fications.

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