Back-to-School, Back to Sports: Preseason Checklist for Parents

A new season means early mornings, busy evenings and lots of moving parts. Use this checklist to stay ahead of the chaos and make sure your athlete has everything they need—before the first whistle blows.

Checklist for parents:

2 Weeks Out

• Confirm all required paperwork is submitted (physical, registration, concussion forms, academic eligibility)
• Review academic and athletic calendar. Check for conflicts (double-booked days, overlapping commitments) and input key dates across all digital and physical calendars. Let your athlete help with this. Communicate with coaches any scheduling conflicts that haven’t already been communicated.
• Build a shared family schedule and begin creating a weekly plan with your athlete.
• Audit all gear and apparel: uniforms, shoes, braces, recovery tools.
• Set up a homework station: add chargers, whiteboard, schedule, and school supplies.

1 Week Out

• Get your game bag ready. Let your athlete take the lead in organizing and labeling it.

Here are the essentials:

• Uniform or practice gear (jersey, shorts, socks, etc.)
• Extra pair of socks
• Cleats, hightops or sport-specific shoes
• Water bottle (filled and labeled)
• Snacks or recovery fuel (banana, granola bar, protein snack)
• Extra Sports bra/undershirt (if needed)
• Hair ties or headbands
• Towel or sweat rag
• Deodorant
• Sunscreen (if practicing outdoors)
• Mouthguard, goggles, shin guards, or other sport-specific gear
• Braces or taping supplies (ankle, knee, etc.)
• Medication or inhaler (if needed, with a backup)

What else do you need to do?

• Lock in transportation and carpool plans. Coordinate rides for practices and games
  now—especially if you have multiple kids or work conflicts.
• Stock up on healthy snacks, hydration, and quick meals.
• Talk with your athlete about their goals. Guide them toward process goals (not outcomes). You can use this resource on How to Set Goals
• Revisit your family’s sports philosophy and values. Sit down together and talk honestly. These three questions are a helpful guide.
• Aligning on both the practical and the personal—like effort, joy, and balance—helps guide decisions, reduce stress, and keep everyone on the same page when the season gets intense. Post these values somewhere visible. 
• Discuss nerves, pressure and performance anxiety.

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• Let your athlete start building their weekly calendar and time management plan, that includes school, practices, homework, PT and recovery time.
• Begin transitioning your athlete back to a school-day routine, including earlier wake-up times and consistent bedtimes to support proper sleep and eating habits. These are helpful tips back-to-school sleep tips.

Three Days Out

For the older athletes, introduce or review recovery tools and routines:

• Normatec Recovery Boots
• Theragun/Massage Guns 
• Foam Rollers 
• Ice packs, heat wraps and KT Tape
• Liquid I.V. or other electrolyte packets

Other steps to take:

• Set a communication plan with your athlete. Ask: How much involvement do you want from me this season? What support feels helpful or unhelpful?
• Encourage independence: let them email their coach, take responsibility for packing and manage their time.
• Rehearse the night-before prep—especially for younger or first-time athletes. Practice packing their bag, laying out their uniform and walking through what the first morning will look like. This builds confidence and removes uncertainty. Help them own the process (with a checklist or visual cues), so they feel prepared—not panicked.
• Have a conversation about expectations—for you and for them. What does a “good” season look like? How will we define success?
• Talk about goals of the first day of tryouts or season. Make sure they are not outcome oriented. They focus on the things they can control. Having a good attitude. Working hard. Being a good teammate. For younger kids, talk about following instructions, active listening and being a food friend.

The Day Of

• Celebrate effort and commitment over outcomes.
• Keep the tone light and positive. Avoid last-minute instructions or pressure.
• Use a motivational quote or mantra—place it in their bag or mirror. 
• Reflect as a parent: What’s one way I can support them this week without adding pressure?

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• Remember: you're not their coach, you're their compass. You are their soft landing when things aren’t going well. 
• Understand the journey you are on by reading trusted resources.

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